Historic Everegtsi family reunion held in Maryland

Alexander family reunion in Maryland, Sept. 7, 2024 (Photo: Matthew Hubbard-Alexander)

On September 7, 2024, over 100 descendants of Hagop and Helen Alexander filled the pavilion of Our Lady of Queen of Peace Catholic Church in Maryland for a family reunion that was historic in a few ways. 

First, this was the largest reunion of the Alexander family — with 108 kin from a dozen states. This reunion was orchestrated by the family’s 90-year-old patriarch, Michael “Sonny” Alexander, a retired Command Sergeant Major in the U.S. Army who is also the last of seven children born to Hagop (1889-1960) and Helen (1900-1937). The family celebrated its many contributions to the U.S. military, law enforcement, technology and other fields and shared a lavish feast including Armenian delicacies imported from Kirichian Foods in New Jersey.  

Second, this reunion was impacted by genetic testing on 23 and me, after two young people in 2018 (Brittany Bangert in Maryland and Lori Dondiego in New Jersey) discovered an unexpected connection that revealed Hagop’s unknown first marriage in New York City in 1910-1914 with Mary Epremian and their two children Alfred (1911-1992) and Margaret (1913-1987). For unclear reasons, Alfred and Margaret never met their father. Hagop and Mary divorced in 1914, and neither spoke of their first marriage until genetic testing revealed the connection 104 years later. 

With great hospitality on September 7, the Alexanders welcomed their six “new” family members from New Jersey to their reunion for the first time and celebrated this new connection.  In fact, Sonny’s oldest brother Alfred was also a U.S. Army veteran — a decorated soldier in the Battle of the Bulge in 1944. Sonny’s oldest sister Margaret was an expert seamstress, the same life-long career as her father Hagop. Throughout the reunion, people commented how closely their new-found family resembled their own members — their faces, mustaches and mannerisms.

Hagop and Helen Alexander settled in Baltimore around 1918 to raise their growing family of seven children. Hagop originally migrated to the U.S. from the “magical” village of Evereg-Fenese in Central Turkey — a historic village that was brutally emptied of Armenians during the Genocide of 1915. Remarkably, these villagers formed the Evereg-Fenese Educational Society (EFES) back in 1879 to promote education among the village’s children. Even a century after this village disappeared in 1915, this EFES remains a vibrant global association, which continues to offer scholarships to its young descendants 145 years later. Until now, the Alexanders have been uninvolved with their Armenian-American community and unaware of their connection with this historic village. 

Information about EFES is available on Facebook and its website, or contact takoosh@aol.com.

Harold Takooshian

Harold Takooshian

Harold Takooshian, Ph.D., is on the faculty of Fordham University since 1975, where he is Professor of Psychology & Urban Studies, and Director of the Organizational Leadership Program (2004-2018). He completed his Ph.D. in Psychology in 1979 at CUNY with Stanley Milgram. He is a researcher, teacher, consultant, whose work is described in Marquis' Who's Who in the World. As a co-founder and past-president of the APA Division of International Psychology, he has served with the United Nations, and chaired its NGO Habitat Committee on Human Settlements (2008-2010).

4 Comments

  1. Ah, OK. From the headline I thought this was a general reunion of people descended from Everek and thought, what an exciting model for others.

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