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Concerned for your children’s Armenian identity? The homeland is calling.

It was not a particular concern until after the Genocide. The idea of losing identity with one’s Armenian heritage was foreign until 1915. After all, most Armenians lived as an indigenous people on their ancestral lands in the western highlands. When you live as an ethnic group in densely populated villages and cities, retaining your identity is essentially taken for granted. You were born into Armenian families, educated at Armenian schools, taught the Christian faith of our people and embraced the culture like the fabric of your clothing. The language you spoke was the mother tongue unless you were prevented from speaking Armenian by the Turkish authorities. This was the case of my maternal grandfather who was raised in the Dardanelles and learned Armenian only when he immigrated to America. The threat to our people concerned their very human existence. It was manifested by the attempt to murder a nation. They failed, but many of our ancestors became victims (now sainted); the remainder were scattered outside their native lands and became what we now refer to as the diaspora. 

After that devastating period, which continued into the 1920s, the primary concern of our rebuilt nation outside of Armenia has been cultural survival. This was not the physical survival that our grandparents experienced, but an identity survival. While continuing the struggle for justice, the diaspora took on another, almost invisible force, called assimilation. The Turkish criminals were convinced that anyone who survived the Genocide and was expelled from their homeland would eventually blend in with their host nation culture and lose their ethnic Armenian identity. They grossly underestimated the resolve of this nation to retain their soul. If the Turks had bothered to understand the Armenians, they would have discovered a history of survival that defied logic going back thousands of years. Even the concept of forced migration was not new, as the Armenians experienced a major demographic shift after the Bagratuni dynasty into the Cilician region. It was here in the land of Adana, Marash and Urfa that Armenia was reborn with the Rupenian dynasty in the 11th century and the seat of the Catholicos in Sis. Only the mass murder of the inhabitants would end their presence. My Adanatzi grandmother actually experienced three horrific massacres as did the Armenians of Cilicia. The first was in 1909 when the Adana massacres claimed the lives of over 30,000 Armenians. My grandmother, who was about nine years old at the time, was sent to live with relatives in Egypt to avoid the atrocities. She returned and lived through the harrowing times of the Genocide, particularly from 1915-1918. After the war ended in the fall of 1918, Armenians were encouraged by the victorious allies to return to their homes in Cilicia. My grandfather was a gamavor stationed with the Armenian Legion in Adana where he met, courted and married my grandmother. They experienced the final betrayal of the “allies,” who withdrew from the region leaving the Armenian population at the mercy of the marauding nationalist Turks under Kemal. Once again, there were atrocities, and the survivors were forced to leave for Syria, Lebanon, Europe or the United States.

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Stepan Piligian

Stepan Piligian was raised in the Armenian community of Indian Orchard, Massachusetts, at the St. Gregory Parish. A former member of the AYF Central Executive, he is active in the Armenian community. Currently, he serves on the board of the Armenian Heritage Foundation. Stepan is a retired executive in the computer storage industry and resides in the Boston area with his wife Susan. He has spent many years as a volunteer teacher of Armenian history and contemporary issues to the young generation and adults at schools, camps and churches. His interests include the Armenian diaspora, Armenia, sports and reading.

5 Comments

  1. Armenians who emigrate from Armenia today must understand the risks. They will eventually become Armenians by name only who dont speak their language much like the many people with Jewish, Irish, Italian, German, French heritage who dont know how to speak their mother tongue. Eventually, through marriage, they will even cease to become Armenians by name. So if you value your roots, you’ll stay in Armenia, grow your family there and not subject your people to the white genocide.
    Furthermore, know that western society is becoming sick and unhealthy. Theres rising crime and mental disorders and high immigration rates will make you feel like you dont belong anywhere because you have nothing in common with all the diversity.
    In the end it comes down to this, if you value material wealth over spiritual wealth.

    1. You are absolutely correct but it seems they prefer welfare system and drinking coffee at starbucks, a brighter spot, sadly.

    2. As part of the proud Armenian Diaspora, I hate it when I hear this. Why would I stay in Armenia? Why would I raise my family in Armenia? Working hard in the Western Countries you can get ahead and help Armenia much more. Whereas in Armenia there is no hope for upward economic mobility. It is my homeland and until things get better, I’m not going to move there. I’ll continue to visit but I have no desire to move. I’m sure many of us think this, but are unwilling to say it. I’m just being honest

      Your logic sounds disturbingly in favor of segregation. Armenian and Armenians need to embrace diversity, learn from it and still maintain our core principles. Not by putting up social walls and hiding behind the old backward way of thinking.

  2. This is where the senior generation must, instead of lamenting, be allowed or invited to share the beauty of Armenian Identity and community. Senior who have learned the intricacies of life, believe in sharing heritage, values and culture….. There must be a greater awareness of who we are if we want to really benefit from our God given purpose in his precious name.

  3. I agree with you Bekhod. As an armenian women (30) that married a non-armenian at a younger age, I have come to learn only after having child, how much I want my child to speak my language and know our true culture values and history. It is extremely challenging when your spouse of course does not have the same desires. It is truly sad to me thinking that our culture (me no different) makes choices to settle for a non Armenian. Slowly overtime there will be less and less true pure Armenians. Our culture, language, everything slow fading to something of the past. I have heard from so many relatives and acquaintances, how hard it is to find an Armenian in Los Angeles for example, that have good Armenian values any more. I heard so many Armenians saying how it is easier to just go be with another race whose standards and expectations are held lower. God willing I can guide my son to live a rightous live and embrace our cultures true values, instead of getting sucking into my husbands (all things are ok, no shame, no rules) kind of thinking. How right or wrong this maybe for others, I don’t know.. but this is truly my battle everyday. 🙏🏼

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