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Grampie’s Thing

Grampie in front of his home

My Grampie used to do this thing. Every time we’d leave his house, he would follow us outside. He’d watch as we’d load ourselves into the car along with whatever goodies Grammie was sending home with us. We’d pull out of his driveway, and he’d just stand there waving goodbye. It didn’t matter the weather or if it was terribly late at night. He’d stand out there waving. We’d drive away, and I’d watch out the window as his figure would shrink so small until we were far enough that he was no longer in view. All the while he’d be standing there waving. When I was little, I’d imagine he stayed outside until the moment we stepped into our own home. I’d imagine he knew exactly when we made it, and only then would he go back inside. Only then would he stop saying goodbye. 

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Arev Dinkjian

Arev Dinkjian grew up in an Armenian household in Fort Lee, NJ. She was always surrounded by art, sourced by her musical father and grandfather, Ara and Onnik, or her creative mother Margo. Arev graduated from Providence College with a degree in elementary and special education. She enjoys teaching language arts to her students and takes great pride in instilling an appreciation for literature in her classroom. She is a former member of the New Jersey AYF “Arsen" Chapter and a member of both the Bergen County ARS and the Sts. Vartanantz Ladies’ Guild. She also dedicated many summers to AYF Camp Haiastan, which she says remains her favorite topic to write about.

12 Comments

  1. I know Arev and this article is very difficult for me to read since I’m crying like a little child. 🙏

  2. Arev is my daughter, and Grampie, my dad. As emotional and beautifully written as this article is, there is simply no way to fully describe this “Renaissance Man” who impacted so many lives–often without their knowledge. No fan fair, no applause, no thanks necessary–a true hero.
    If everyone had a dad like mine, the world would be a much better place.

    1. Oh Margo so very sorry for your loss my wonderful friend x I feel your pain and wish I could just give you a big hug and whisper in your ear that it will all be ok and it will eventually, the memories do live on longer than the pain. The article your daughter wrote is heart wrenching but absolutely beautiful – what a lovely memory to have xx Love you Hugs from NZ x

  3. Beautifully said in honor of a great Gramie!
    My sincere condolences to all your family.
    May his soul Rest In Peace!
    Antoinette Folkard

  4. Lovely way to memorialize your grandfather. And even better, many of us engage in the same Armenian-style goodbye. My parents (who are now grandparents themselves) do the same.

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