Vietnam Soldier Bedrosian Memorialized—41 Years Later

METHUEN, Mass.—As a young teenager growing up in the streets of nearby Lawrence, David Peter John Bedrosian was everyone’s best friend.

Army Specialist David Bedrosian

He helped out his peers whenever the going got tough, ran errands for the elderly, helped neighbors in distress, and befriended the nuns in a nearby convent.

Whenever the Sisters of Holy Rosary Church needed a helping hand bundling clothes and food for the indigent, Bedrosian was at their beckoning call.

The youth barely saw his 20th birthday. He was killed in a freak motor vehicle accident while serving as a specialist with the United States Army in Vietnam, leaving an indelible image with his parents John and Margaret.

Now 41 years later, he’s been memorialized with a shrine inside Lawrence City Hall foyer where others like him have been remembered for making the ultimate sacrifice.

“Better late than never,” agreed his dad John, himself a military veteran like his own father who served with the Armed Forces in World War II. To describe the Bedrosians as an ultimate military family is putting it mildly. They symbolize the very best this country has to offer.

“A lot of people go into Town Hall every day,” Bedrosian said. “They’ll see my son’s picture and remember the cause he served. He died with a patriotic heart.”

The day was Nov. 14, 1969. A monsoon had struck Quon Loi and Bedrosian had disembarked from a fork lift, only to be struck by his own vehicle as visibility had been heavily impaired due to the torrential rain.

The Bedrosians were at work when news of their son’s death had arrived. They rushed home to find an army chaplain and official at their door and feared for the worse. The news came two months before David was scheduled for discharge. He had already sent some of his belongings home.

The funeral that followed will long be recalled as one of the biggest military gatherings the city of Lawrence has ever seen. The American flag that covered the casket was folded by an honor guard and presented to Margaret Bedrosian at the gravesite.

If you are to drive by Maple Street in Lawrence, you will see a street sign bearing David Bedrosian’s name. That’s where the family lived prior to their move to Methuen.

“A day hasn’t gone by when we don’t think of our son,” said Margaret, pointing to a cache of keepsakes that include artwork and photographs and a showcase containing his medals.

“David’s alive in our hearts, never dead,” she added, wiping away a tear. “Even the great-grandchildren hear about him. In our mind, David had never left home.”

He served his Holy Cross Armenian Church as an acolyte, delivered newspapers, and enjoyed playing sports with his friends. Some of his best times were fishing with his dad.

In high school, David was recognized as a model student who yearned to become an architect in his professional life. He planned to attend Wentworth Institute in Boston when the war was gaining impetus.

He put his future education on hold and enlisted into the army before the possibility of being drafted. Bedrosian wanted to serve America on his own terms.

Six months later—on Palm Sunday—he got shipped to Vietnam and was assigned to the infantry where he played a significant role of supplying weapons to the troops.

Now, the Bedrosians can take comfort in knowing their city has finally recognized their son with a belated memorial and his rightful place on the Wall of Honor, along with other fallen personnel. Bedrosian shares company with a 21-year-old marine killed by sniper fire and another from World War II just portrayed in the HBO miniseries “The Pacific.”

Pictures of their son are carried in their wallets. Both their cars have registrations proclaiming their role as Gold Star parents. The Bedrosians attend St. Gregory Church in North Andover where news of their son wasn’t common knowledge until word got out about the ceremony.

Bedrosian’s name also appears on the Vietnam Wall of Honor with 58,000 other victims, together with another namesake—a lieutenant who was killed while serving with the U.S. Air Force. No relation, other than the Armenian connection.

Tom Vartabedian

Tom Vartabedian

Tom Vartabedian is a retired journalist with the Haverhill Gazette, where he spent 40 years as an award-winning writer and photographer. He has volunteered his services for the past 46 years as a columnist and correspondent with the Armenian Weekly, where his pet project was the publication of a special issue of the AYF Olympics each September.
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3 Comments

  1. Mothers’ Tears Can’t Dry Until They Die


    Why war exists in happy lands?
    In gulfs, in deserts, and in mountains highs.
     
    Why mothers should cry for handsome sons?
    Cover their graves before they die!
     
    Why! Why! Why!—and endless why?
    We have incessant creations in life.
     
    Why can’t we silence murderers in hive
    Protecting mothers’ souls of gravely sigh?
     
    Why should soldiers die?
    Mothers will cry; tears will not dry.
     
    Till they reach, where their beats went lie.
    Wherever they lay, echoes stay calling . . .why!
     
    Mothers’ losses can’t be replaced
    In known—dishonest, fiery wide space.
     
    Which chromosome started cruel wars?
    Criminal genes rein endless crosses on shores.
     
    The mother beloveds straggled in life.
    Homes distorted impossible to revive.
     
    Mothers are mothers wherever they are,
    Tears will not dry until they die!


    (C) Sylva Portoian, MD


    from the poetry collection
    Sons:Take my heart and transplant, 2009
    ISBN:978-1-4363-8475-9


     

  2. Tom,  I’m glad you wrote David up regardless of how he died.  He died in the service to his country under hazardous conditions. 

  3. Hi Tom My Uncle George Bedrossian was the Lieutenant killed he was from Providence Rhode Island it was my Fathers Brother He was a Graduate of Providence College and was a pilot. During Vietnam My Father Simon who is now 81 years old Served in Korea If your looking for a story of Two men who traveled here from Paris during the 40’s and there extrodinary Lives email me back..There stories are amazing

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